Family business
If ever I get married, my hubby and I will have joint accounts, I should know his salary and take home pay so we'll know our resources and how to budget them properly.. but I wouldn't question him re his personal expenses.. I would provide a budget for each expense item, but I will not frequently inquire on how he is spending the budget alloted for himself to use..
I will not ask for his atm during pay days so I'll be the first one to get hold of his money before everything is subtracted. The moment I'll do that signals my not trusting his ways, and my looking for evidences of his unfaithfulness.
I have a dream... my husband is the leader of our home, he oversees everything, and I do the legwork: on those pettly little things that an overseer does not spend much time on. My husband is there to support me, and lead me..
We'll both stand as pillars of our home. We'll stand as individuals with different sets of accountabilities but our goals are congruent. And that means we don't digress to a different agenda. I guess, God will then be there in the midst of us.
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